This post will have little, if anything, to do with personal finance; however, in light of recent events I felt compelled to write something regarding the matter.
Like everyone else in this country, I was shocked and physically sick to my stomach when I heard about the shootings that happened at Sandy Hook Elementary, even more so as a resident of Connecticut.
I’ve done my fair share of trolling around the web reading various news articles and blogs about this tragedy and what disgusts me even more than the event itself is the underlying current of hate filled comments by republicans against democrats and democrats against republicans. Never in my entire 29 years on this planet have I seen this level of hatred brewing amongst supposedly mature adults.
I’ve read comments where self-proclaimed liberal democrats paint gun owners as blood hungry killers and gun owning republicans paint liberals as pussified hippies, both with broad brushes I might add. Sure, we are all talking about an extremely emotionally charged event, but where did all of this hatred come from?
I am a gun owner myself. Does that make me a red neck hick who doesn’t care about little children? Hardly! In fact, if you got to know me you’d probably be floored that someone like myself even owned a gun!
When I’m not working as a financial analyst, I spend most of my time playing classical piano, probably to the tune of three to four hours a day. That may seem like an absurd amount of time, although that is why I can play most of Chopin’s etudes and Beethoven’s later sonatas which are horrendously difficult (I once took third at an international piano competition).
Between work and piano I also have a fiancee, who I’ve been dating since high school, that I dedicate the rest of my little free time to. Contrary to what most anti-gunners label gun owners as (according to the comments I’ve read on articles relating to Sandy Hook), I don’t spend every waking hour of my life polishing my guns and looking at the firearm collection in my safe while masturbating to a bunch of metal tools that make up for any supposed deficiency when it comes to the size of my genitalia. As an individual of Asian decent I probably fit the stereo type though, and I’m man enough to admit it.
The right’s hate filled rhetoric for the left is just as bad. Perhaps it is the anonymity of the interwebz that provides people with the cajones to post exceedingly derogatory remarks about everyone else. I have plenty of liberal family members and would never dream of saying some of the things I’ve read about “pussified liberals” to their faces.
I am a gun owner who is just as comfortable about my manhood while spending time with my gay cousins at gay bars or walking around in waspy Lacoste sweaters and pink JCrew shorts while running errands with my fiancee.
I am a gun owner who usually carries concealed wherever it is legal for me to do so. The funny thing is that I never even think about the pistol I’m carrying throughout the day and most of the time forget it is even there. When I carry I don’t walk around looking for a conflict that would make me a hero. In fact, if I have the slightest sense that a conflict is brewing I’d be the first to run the other direction. I do not consider myself to be Rambo, and while I may be intelligent enough to be James Bond I’d rather leave the adrenaline filled adventures to real life super spies.
I am a small 140 pound Asian guy who simply realizes that my tiny frame would probably get tossed around by some criminal with a knife who wants to harm my beautiful Asian fiancee.
I am a individual who was raised in a religious manner. ZOMG, Christian right winger! Shut the F up! Yea, I was the head organist at my church growing up and I have strong personal religious beliefs; ironically, I’d be the first person to defend my openly gay cousins and family, in a verbally polite manner, if anyone said any homophobic remark towards them.
I am part of a small minority of individuals who don’t place our personal philosophical, political, sexual or religious views in a morally superior position to the views of others. I may disagree with you, but I’m not going to go around getting people who hold similar views to my own to sign petitions and get an outside authority to use violence so I can destroy your individual personal philosophy and force you to adhere to my own.
I am an individual who believes that violence, in any form, is immoral. I once had a discussion with my gay cousin’s boyfriend about gay marriage which he asked me whether I was for or against it. Well, according to my religious beliefs no. However, and this is a big however, even though our philosophical and sexual outlook on life may be drastically different, if I used the “will of the majority” or enact a law that effectively destroys him as individual, I have had a hand in violently destroying what makes him a human being.
Sadly, we have two primary groups with radically different viewpoints, who believe they are morally superior to everyone else and are willing to use violence to crush the individual spirits of their opposing parties.
I am an individual who has never committed a single crime, who is not a Texas redneck (no offense to Texas rednecks), is college educated, is metro-sexual, is secure about the genetic deficiencies of his Asian manhood (a stereo type, I know), is tolerant of conflicting philosophies, is peaceful, is conflict avoiding, is a lover of classical piano and Schubert lieder, is a heterosexual who hangs out with his visiting gay family members at the scene of their choosing, is not filled with hate towards individuals with conflicting outlooks on life, and is an owner of multiple guns and assault rifles.
Essentially, I am a far cry from a bible thumping, gun owning, wealthy white republican.
If we allow the actions of one insane individual to fill us all with so much hatred that we use everything in our power to destroy the individualism of people with conflicting viewpoints, we are just as violent as the crazy f**k who killed innocent children in cold blood. The double edged sword of hatred that will be used to cut off the heads of millions of gun owners for the actions of one criminal, is the same sword that is used by hate filled Christians (yes, hate filled Christians) to cut off the heads of millions of gay individuals that want nothing more than celebrate their relationships with the blessing of the state.
With so much hate spewing from both republicans and democrats (and cheered on by the lamestream media), I won’t be surprised if our society becomes even more violent in the future. Unfortunately, we are all at a violent tipping point where no amount of laws or regulations will be able to protect us from each other.
In the end, it is the peaceful individual like myself who will be ritually sacrificed in order to appease the hate filled mobs calling for their leaders to swing the double edged sword of hate.
*Be forewarned, while discussion is encouraged, keep the hate filled comments to yourself or take them somewhere else, they will not be tolerated here!